I'm A 20 Year Old Virgin
We have reached a point in time where people expect you to not be a virgin after the age of 16, I mean, literally everyone I knew in high school wasn't a virgin (at lease that's what they would say). Call me an ignorant old fashioned 18th century nun but I believe in abstinence until marriage, lucky for me, so does my fiance. There are a lot of benefits to not being sexually active. 1. No Pregnancy, duh. Every time you have sex you raise your chance of being pregnant no matter how much "protection" you use. Only abstinence can give you a 100% guarantee of no pregnancy. I can't imagine how torturing it must be to be constantly afraid that you might be pregnant. My life and mind are chill, I have no worries. 2. No attachment. I remember how so many girls would cry in the bathroom because of their breakup and they would almost always say, "He was my first". It's been proven that sex is more than physical, it is deeply spiritual. The first person you have sex with will be your most memorable sexual encounter, every different person after that will cheapen the intimacy of sex. Personally, If I am going to become attached to someone I want to become attached to Martin (my fiance) because we will be together for the rest of our lives. I know a lot of people think, "You're engaged, just do it". Call us dreamers but Martin and I are strong believers in the beauty and spiritual importance of the first time and we want to keep that beautiful moment waiting for our honeymoon after our marriage. In case you are curious, Martin and I are both christians and we are both virgins.